Wednesday, March 11, 2009

And then she crossed the line!

So- I had to put some tough love into action!
This was the worst day and the best day- really!
She made choices that were effecting our home and her siblings- she decided that she knew what was best for herself- so I kicked her out! I was not proud of that- BUT I knew it had to happen. She could choose to go live with the very people that were providing her with the "fun" life that she felt she wanted- OR she could choose to straighten up and be part of this home! Totally her choice! It took her a few days- but before she was welcome back into our home, she had made some decisions that will effect the rest of her life!
I know it has not been easy. She had to give up all of her friends, buckle down in school and get a job! I am proud to say that she has done this and more and that I am so proud of her! It was a long tough road! I have learned so much from her and I am thrilled to have her as my daughter!
I have a feeling about the 19th birthday! I think it will be the birthday that she will remember forever! Happy Birthday Kelcey! We love you!

2 comments:

Des said...

I'm so proud of her! That is a scary thing to let go as a parent and let them exercise their free agency. I'm glad she is happy and that everything is working out for her. I would love to help with any wedding plans that may be coming up! What an exciting time! Love ya Kelcey! :)

Kelcey Kae said...

hey now, mom! don't go giving your self false hope that i'll be engaged on my birthday and soon outta your hair... it MAY not happen dear. lol
love you.